Humans naturally want to love, value, and feel like they belong somewhere. For this reason, they tend to be attached not only to people but also to objects and situations. The things we own, the desire for status, recognition, or approval seem to help us feel secure and valuable. However, over time, these attachments can turn into invisible chains that limit our freedom. Because when we start defining our value by what we own, these things or statuses come to define us.

If we believe that a house, a car, or a status in our social circle makes us valuable, we feel incomplete or inadequate without these things. Of course, everyone has the right to live in a beautiful house, but if we feel worthless when we don't have it, we have actually become dependent on that house. This dependency makes our happiness conditional and prevents us from expressing ourselves freely.

Similarly, the same kind of attachment can develop in relationships between people. For example, if we have made our love for our spouse or children dependent on their constant presence or behavior towards us, this love is not independent but dependent. Such attachment restricts the freedom of our love for our loved ones. It makes us feel unstable and uneasy when the person we love leaves our lives or does not behave as we want. However, true love is an independent and unconditional love that does not need such conditions.

A true master is independent of status, material values, and emotional needs; this gives him real power and freedom. Even if the person he loves leaves his life, he does not lose his balance, because he remains fixed in his inner center. This kind of balance and freedom requires trusting in our inner strength, not just in the things or people we possess.

Questioning our attachments is an opportunity to redefine ourselves. Measuring our worth not by what we have, but by who we are; knowing that love is an unconditional gift, and living our freedom without mortgaging it for anything is the key to true peace and power. A free mind, a soul that is not limited by any dependency, leads a person to true power.